This one was a difficult one for me to incorporate into my life. With my Sun in the 7th house (no less, in the sign of Pisces), I didn’t realize just how much ‘people-pleasing’ was a big part of my previous motto.
As part of my awakening journey, I have gradually learned the value of knowing how to stay true to what I feel like doing or being a part of, and the benefits have been mind-blowing.
I previously thought that by saying ‘No’ I was somehow missing out on things in my life, but what I have come to realize is that I was actually saying ‘No’ to myself.
Some of the most notable frequency-shifting ‘Nos’ were declining invites to events and engagements that don’t really excite me and walking away from people and situations that don’t treat me as I feel I should be treated
